Happy Thanksgiving!

25/11/10 0 COMMENTS

I want to personally wish you and yours a safe, warm, and delicious Thanksgiving!

If you know anything about me, you know I do not cook!
(That is what my slaves and sissies are for!)
Luckily, my Mother is a very talented Southern cook so I will be dining with my family. My dear Mother prefers if I stay out of the Kitchen (Because I am usually in the way or distracting her!) So I enjoy cutting the Holiday birds and setting up the dining area.

I have one older Sister. She is married with three sons. (Yes!, the pressure is off of me!) We are pretty close. We always have to be careful about keeping our secrets, secret at family events.

We all live 20 minutes away from each other. This does make me being kinky so much more interesting. Especially when I was doing intense breathplay with a exboyfriend and my Mother knockss on the door. I went on the front porch in a robe and kept her occupied while my sub hid in my bedroom. Which would be great except for the rope still hanging from the exposed beams in the ceiling. :sigh!:

Well as you can about guess, I am pretty out to my Mom at this point. She’s even seen my Playroom.

All she could say was that she hated my black leather Curtains! I think she was still in shock!

We are not your typical family but at least there is love.

Happy Thanksgiving!
Mistress Eva

OK, Who did this? lol

22/11/10 1 COMMENTS

City police search for woman wearing handcuffs, ball gag
By Elizabeth Dinan

PORTSMOUTH – Police launched a noontime search for a city woman described as wearing handcuffs and a “ball gag.”

Capt. Mike Schwartz said the call began at a downtown restaurant where the woman dined, then left wearing the cuffs and gag.
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* Cuffed and gagged woman found safe, say police

“A woman who called (police) was interested in getting the cuffs back,” said Schwartz.

The police captain said the case is under investigation and may or may not lead to a theft charge. According to emergency radio communications, the calling party has the keys to the handcuffs for when the woman is located.

The woman is described as about 5′ 5”, 30 years old and Caucasian.

Anyone with information is urged to call police at 427-1500, or leave an anonymous tip at Seacoast Crime Stoppers or by text at CRIMES (274637).

The Scientific Case for Masturbation

20/11/10 0 COMMENTS

http://www.newsweek.com/2010/10/07/why-masturbation-helps-procreation.html

(The Link above has pop ups. So I am posting the full article here.)

The Scientific Case for Masturbation
By: Sharon Begley
Why O’Donnell gets it wrong: being ‘master of your domain’ does not help procreation.

O’Donnell’s mid-’90s crusade against autoeroticism wasn’t based on science.
Since Christine “I’m Not a Witch” O’Donnell is campaigning for the U.S. Senate and not the directorship of the Kinsey Institute, maybe we should give her a pass when it comes to her views on sex and, specifically, masturbation. But that would be a mistake: the stakes are simply too high, going all the way up the very survival of our species. For while O’Donnell crusaded against masturbation in the mid-1990s, denouncing it as “toying” with the organs of procreation and generally undermining baby making, the facts are to the contrary. Evidence from elephants to rodents to humans shows that masturbating is—counterintuitively—an excellent way to make healthy babies, and lots of them. No one who believes in the “family” part of family values can let her claims stand.

The science is straightforward. Whenever a behavior is common in the animal kingdom, biologists suspect it has an adaptive function. That is, the behavior enabled individual animals to survive better and leave more offspring than animals that did not engage in the behavior. As a result, genes for the behavior spread throughout that population until it became essentially ubiquitous. And so it is with autoeroticism, which is common—really common. As the Science in Seconds blog noted this week, what with “spanking the monkey,” “charming the snake,” and “freeing willy,” a remarkable number of the slang terms for pleasuring oneself refer to animals. That reflects reality: the practice has been documented in Japanese macaques, gibbons, baboons, chimps, elephants, dogs, cats, horses, lions, donkeys, “and walruses that manage to flog the bishop with their fins.” (Bonus for clicking on the blog link above: excellent photo of an elephant in flagrante dilecto.)

Christine O’Donnell has shown she can hold her own at the polls in Delaware, but she’s apparently against people ‘holding their own’ in other respects. The late-night comics can’t help but react.
What, then, might be its adaptive function? How can autoeroticism help animals triumph in the war of survival of the fittest? Lucky for us, scientists have been pondering this. There are four basic theories, each with some support in one or another animal species (I’m not counting the sexual-outlet hypothesis, which posits that masturbation is not adaptive but is just a byproduct of sexual arousal, which is definitely adaptive):

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1. Masturbation might remove old, worn-out, broken sperm from the reproductive tract. That would increase the fraction of healthy, speedy sperm, improving a male’s chance of becoming a father. “In humans, masturbation increases sperm quality (by promoting younger sperm) without affecting sperm numbers in the female reproductive tract,” notes biologist Jane Waterman of the University of Central Florida in a new paper in the journal PLoS One. As far back as 1993, biologists had observed that masturbating decreased the number of sperm a man delivered the next time he had sex with his partner, but not the number of sperm the woman retained. They concluded that “masturbation is a male strategy to increase sperm fitness.”

Research presented at a science meeting last year offered support for the fitter-sperm idea. Ejaculating daily for seven days improved sperm quality as measured by the amount of DNA damage: levels of damage averaged 34 percent on a standard measurement index after three days’ abstinence, but after a week of … um, non-abstinence, the level of damage dropped to 26 percent, in the “fair” range for sperm quality. Looking only at men whose sperm damage decreased (in a few, damage got worse for some reason), the average damage level fell to just under 23 percent—putting them in the “good” range. In addition, sperm motility rose significantly. Result: healthier and possibly more babies.

2. Masturbation might be a form of advertising. According to this idea, males that engage in autoeroticism signal to possible mates as well as competitors how much they have to offer. “Males may advertise their high quality,” explains Waterman, “signaling that they have high quantities of sperm and can afford to waste some.” Result: more mating, more babies, more families. We hasten to add that masturbation as advertising does not apply (we really, really hope) to humans.

3. Masturbation might be a sort of victory lap. Some animals masturbate after they mate. Since other members of a group know this, then masturbation signifies that the male engaging in this behavior was the chosen partner of other females. Females who are still shopping for a mate might be inspired by that information to copy their choice, as in, “if he was good enough for her …” Result: more mating, more babies.

4. Masturbation can serve a hygiene function. According to this idea, males engage in autoeroticism because it cleans the reproductive tract and reduces the chance of acquiring a sexually transmitted disease from a female that he mated with and who had other recent partners. Result: a lower incidence of STDs, better sexual hygiene, more mating, more babies.

The STD function is what Waterman inferred about masturbation after she spent 2,000 (!) hours observing the Cape ground squirrel (Xerus inauris) of Namibia. As she explains in PLoS One, “an oral masturbation was recorded when a male sat with head lowered and an erect penis in his mouth, being stimulated with both mouth (fellatio) and forepaws (masturbation), while the lower torso moved forward and backwards in thrusting motions, finally culminating in an apparent ejaculation.” The behavior was much more frequent on days when females were fertile, and mostly occurred after mating. That would seem odd, since it wastes huge numbers of sperm just when they have the best chance of finding a willing egg. Odd, too, is the observation that males masturbated more when their mate had had a lot of other suitors (female Cape ground squirrels mate with up to 10 males in their three-hour fertile period). But there is one explanation that makes sense of a behavior that occurs after mating, and more often when a male has mated with a particularly promiscuous female: masturbation is a way for males to reduce the chance of infection, since saliva has antibacterial properties. Since STDs can destroy fertility, sexual hygiene through masturbation is a way for male squirrels to keep making babies.

And what about females? There have been far fewer observations of females masturbating in the wild, though bonobos are well known for this form of eroticism (and every other, it seems). One popular theory for why females might indulge, however, is incorrect—namely, the idea that orgasm (during or right after mating) might propel sperm to the egg. To the contrary, scientists reported in a 2002 paper, “vaginal and uterine contractions … have been misinterpreted as powering rapid sperm transport to facilitate fertilization, but such fast transport would lead to the tubal deposition of noncapacitated, incompetent spermatozoa,” which would not lead to conception. Instead, primatologists conclude, in the case of females the purpose is simply to “produce enjoyable sensations”.

All in all, and across species great and small, autoeroticism (at least among males) is a cornerstone of procreation and thus the formation of families. Were O’Donnell’s unscientific views of the practice to spread, it would be a worrisome threat to family values.
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Mistress Eva: I am usually all for Female Politicians BUT I am very glad that O’Donnell did not win.. Someone who so many hangups about sexuality really worries me. Usually, its a sign of many more hangups that are just brimming under the surface.

I think Masturbation is healthy as long as it does not control your life. I talk to MANY Chronic Masturbators on Niteflirt. They eat, sleep, piss, work and masturbate (not always in that order!). Are you a Chronic Masturbater or just a daily happy ending?

Sex Organ-Shaped Tombstones Bring Gawkers to Iranian Cemetery

16/11/10 0 COMMENTS

By David Moye (Nov. 16) — A cemetery in northeastern Iran is arousing interest from locals and tourists alike, thanks to tombstones that look remarkably like penises.

The Khalid Nabi cemetery, which is 40 miles northeast of Gonbad-e Kavous in northeastern Iran, is becoming a hot-and-bothered spot for Iran’s young adults, for whom sex is a dirty word.

According to the Global Post, more than 600 headstones have been erected in the bizarre cemetery, which is believed to be more than 1,400 years old. The most famous person believed to be buried there is Khalid Nabi, a prophet who was born in Yemen 40 years before Muhammad.

It is a pilgrimage site, but to say the people who are visiting are going for religious purposes alone would be a fallacy in the truest sense of the word. Nope, the folk want to see giant stone sex organs.

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Khalid Nabi cemetery in Iran has 600 headstones in the shape of male and female genitalia.
There are two types of titillating tombstones: Some are long columns nearly 6 feet high that look just like penises and others are smaller, cross-shaped headstones that some observers think represent female breasts.

According to Alireza Hesar Nuee, one of the few historians to have studied the site, the sexual symbolism could come from the phallic religion practiced in India and central Asia, but admits few know for sure the meaning behind the designs.

Whatever the original message might have been, current visitors look out on the field and see a bizarre agglomeration of horny headstones.

The chatter among tourists, often overexcited by the surprising sight, is the only thing that breaks through the otherwise perfect silence of the cemetery and the valley. The bashful are hesitant to take pictures standing next to the poles, but others see it as an opportunity to have a laugh.

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Headstones like this one are thought to have come from the phallic religion practiced in India and central Asia.
And that’s the way it should be, according to psychiatrist Dr. Doreen Orion, who, as author of the travel book “Queen of the Road” (Broadway Books), has taken detours to see sex organs created by nature, such as a penis-shaped rock off the coast of Morro Bay, Calif.

“I’ve seen caves in Oregon where the stalactites and stalagmites were phallic shaped,” she told AOL News. “It brings out the 12-year-old in all of us. People seem to enjoy anthropomorphizing objects in nature.”

Of course, Iran isn’t the only place with rocks that look like sex organs.

According to Richard Rubacher, an expatriate writer living in Bangkok, some of the most popular tourist attractions in Thailand are rocks that look like human genitalia.

“On the island of Koh Samui, about 400 miles from Bangkok, there are two rock formations that resemble male and female genitalia and they are very popular — families flock to it,” he said.

In addition, Mount Danxia in Southern China is famous for having a male organ-shaped stone and a female one at almost the same place — across the river from each other about three miles apart.

Regardless of their location, Orion thinks sex organ-shaped rocks are a good thing — especially in places in like Iran where discussion of sex is taboo.

“In places where sexual expression is suppressed, but there are objects like these that are naturally formed in nature, this can be a safe outlet,” she said. “It’s fun and harmless and a good laugh.”

http://www.aolnews.com/weird-news/article/sex-organ-shaped-tombstones-bring-gawkers-to-iranian-cemetery/19719019

From Gay to Straight? Controversial Retreat Helps Men Deal With ‘Unwanted Attraction’

09/11/10 0 COMMENTS

http://abcnews.go.com/Nightline/gay-straight-retreat-helps-men-deal-unwanted-feelings/story?id=12005242

In a ‘Nightline’ Exclusive, Men Attend Therapeutic Camp to Confront and Overcome Homosexual Feelings

By RYAN OWENS AND MELIA PATRIA

(Small Video in above LINK)

When Preston met up with a bunch of his friends in New Caney, Texas, for a guys’ weekend at a secluded camp, it wasn’t for hunting or fishing. These men traveled here to attend emotional counseling sessions to cope with unwanted sexual attraction towards other men.

“To be able to connect from one man to another, with no facade, with no you know nothing holding back, it’s just amazing,” said Preston, a 28-year-old from outside of Salt Lake City, Utah. He requested only his first name be used.

The retreat called “Journey to Manhood” offers therapeutic peer counseling over 48 hours to help men like Preston, who voluntarily come to learn how to deal with what they call “same-sex attractions.” For the first time ever, the retreat allowed cameras inside their controversial organization and ABC News was granted exclusive access.

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Mistress Eva: When I read this, I just laughed and I even felt insulted. My first thought was, if they can do this, we need a retreat for folks who have unwanted attraction to the opposite sex! I know sometimes I wish I had zero attraction to men! I know I would be a ot happier with a Woman. (Yes, I am very BOLDLY Bi-Sexual)

So people get a grip! Love is Love. You would think we could love who ever we wanted in 2010! Its sad when we feel shame for someone love. But let’s not forget, attraction can also just mean just
LUST too. From my time on Niteflirt, I know MANY men love cock but that doesn’t mean they want to get married to a man. Some are happy just being whores! Which is fine too.

In the end, there is not enough love in the world. If we were more focused on love and making love in this world, there would be no time for crime, hate and war.

Do not be ashamed of your attractions. Embrace them!

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